I recently broke up with my ex after a year and half relationship. We actually met through Xanga. At the beginning, we hit it off really well. Sure we didn’t seem to have a lot of interests in common, but we dug each other, that’s what counts.
About a third of the way through the relationship, I noticed something was wrong. Generally in the past, my dates would offer (even if they didn’t really mean it) to pay for dinners and movies once in a while, but she didn’t. I noticed she didn’t really pay much attention to what I said anymore nor cared about it. I noticed a lot of clubbing and hanging out with male friends. I had some chats with her and I thought she understood what I was trying to say. And she was late ALL the time.
Two thirds of the way through now, I start to get aggravated at the fact that none of this has changed. In fact, it was getting worse. I felt like a chump, being taking advantage of. I figured ‘what couple doesn’t have little things they don’t like about each other?’ and tried to look past it. In fact, I even enrolled us in a few couples’s classes to work together and build trust.
Near the end of the relationship I couldn’t handle it much anymore. Even people around me started to see the way I was being treated. Unfair, unjust, unbalanced. The last thing we did together was a couple’s rock climbing class. I had to break things off with her before they stressed me out even more. Unfortunately, we still had 1 more class to attend to. I decided it wasn’t right to go, especially by myself to a couple’s class. Little did I know, SHE went with her new beau to OUR rock climbing class that *I* paid for under MY name.
I don’t think that’s right. People shouldn’t attended classes that you pay for, especially with another guy after you break up with them. It was totally disrespectful and rude. What if I had gone too?
Do you think it is right for someone to attend something you paid for after you broke up without your consent?
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